Pro Dating Tips

One of the most frequent questions I get is, “How do I get this special guy to like me?” Well, there is no single answer that will work for every guy, so I’ll share my top three tips on how I get my guys:

1. Eye Contact

A guy can’t have a crush on you if he doesn’t know you exist. The easiest way to solve this problem is to stare directly at him every time you are near him. There are a few results that can be expected from this. In most cases, the guy will notice and lock eyes with you. This is when you stare as intensely as possible, trying to convey all the potential for a relationship you can just feel boiling inside you. This should turn into a staring contest; the best-case scenario is that you never break eye contact. If he’s looking at you, he can’t be looking at other girls! After an intense staredown, the male will usually approach you seeking an explanation - yay, he’s going to talk to you! If this happens, make sure you act like you weren’t staring and talk as little as possible; guys love the chase!

2. Only Respond to Texts Occasionally

If a guy you like texts or snap chats you, you probably respond. Well, that is where you have been going wrong this entire time! The best way to handle your special someone contacting you is to ignore him completely. Take a few hours before you respond to show the guy how extremely busy your life is, and make him feel like you will never ever have time for him. Once you do respond, don’t edit your response at all. This will make you appear more carefree, and he will like the honesty behind your initial reaction. While writing the response, make sure you are as vague as possible. I promise the guy will love trying to puzzle out what you are trying to tell him. After successfully completing these steps, don’t worry if he doesn’t respond right away. It is likely that he is just blown away by your flirting technique and can’t find the right words to express his admiration.

3. The Best Time to Talk to Him

This one has more to do with snap chat or meeting up in person - it won’t work that well over text. The best time to talk to your dream man is directly after going to the gym. Science shows that guys are more attracted to girls with a musky scent, and if you don’t smell at least a little bit musky after a workout, you aren’t working hard enough! Another scientific fact that will help you on your dating excursions is that people automatically become more attractive when they wear red. Now, we redheads have an advantage there, but the rest of you still have a chance! After working out, most people have a lovely tomato-red complexion - well, there you go, you're musky and red, exactly what guys look for in a girl! Meeting up with him after the gym gives you a built-in conversation starter. You can tell him your max for all your lifts. If you find out you can lift more than him, this is good; it’s best to assert your superiority early in the relationship; also, guys love it when you challenge their masculinity like this.

All these tips are what made me the catch I am today; I hope they work for you, too!